Many young couples dream of being with their partner for the rest of their lives. However, after decades of being with your spouse, you may decide that it is time to call it quits. If you are over 50 and thinking about getting a divorce in Colorado, here are some huge mistakes that you need to avoid making.
Forgetting about your children
If you are over 50 and have been married for a few decades, it is likely that you have children and that those children are already grown adults. Even though your children are adults now, it does not mean that they won’t get affected by the news of your divorce.
Some children idolize their parents’ relationship and use that as the basis of what a good relationship should be. Even if your child is an adult now, seeing your relationship fall apart may cause them a lot of turmoil. While the final decision is up to you and your spouse, you should not forget to involve your children in the process.
Oversharing to your lawyers
Another mistake you don’t want to make is trying to use your lawyer and other divorce advisors as if they were therapists. Your lawyer is responsible for assisting you with complex property division, not helping you get over your ex. If you need to talk to someone while going through your divorce proceedings, it would be best for you to confide in your close friends or family members and a psychologist.
Getting a divorce can be the beginning of a happier, more exciting chapter of your life. While the transition may be tough, you may look back at this time and realize that it was the best decision you could have made.